If you ever go to a funeral, you find people standing round talking about the qualities of the deceased. I always wonder, did they say these things when the person was alive and they had the chance? What did a stiff upper lip do for you? Go on. Tell people you care. Let them know how you feel. It will be really embarrassing and you may blame me but do it anyway. People deserve to know how wonderful you think they are. Not just your nearest and dearest but that busker who is really talented or the helpful sales assistant.